tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9043257283988539388.post5462486623665120420..comments2023-10-07T07:25:17.852-06:00Comments on taraphotographics: no excusestarahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08817097878528841478noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9043257283988539388.post-24251729712336299972011-03-11T14:03:22.387-07:002011-03-11T14:03:22.387-07:00Did you take this with a lensbaby? I love lensbabi...Did you take this with a lensbaby? I love lensbabies!Chelsea Fitchhttp://www.geenumbrellaphotoblog.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9043257283988539388.post-77096989720819584242011-03-09T09:45:07.247-07:002011-03-09T09:45:07.247-07:00One thing that has been a huge help to Jordan and ...One thing that has been a huge help to Jordan and I is the simple idea that when you have a problem with the other person, the problem is probably just with you. You have to fix yourself before you can fix the other person, and once you set yourself straight, you usually see that it was just you all along: the other person wasn't really doing anything. Marriage is the perfect place to learn that you can only control yourself (your thoughts, your words, your actions, your feelings) and once you do that, everything is really ok :) No one can make you mad, or offended. It's really up to you. Just like you said, marriage is what YOU make it. <br /><br />ps. I loved this post. Thank you :)torihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07572579658019904326noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9043257283988539388.post-23004217793767423902011-03-09T08:55:06.606-07:002011-03-09T08:55:06.606-07:00I do the same thing with my ring. And I completely...I do the same thing with my ring. And I completely agree with everything else you said. I haven't been married much longer than you, but I'll tell you a little something I've learned. I realized that it's all about our attitude and our thoughts (which you seem to be realizing in the post). Don't sweat the small stuff, and think about all the good. Think about the reasons you love him, instead of the things that annoy you. Tell each other the things you appreciate often. <br /><br />When I have this mindset John notices my happiness and our relationship grows every day. Marriage is so gooooood :)Sara T.https://www.blogger.com/profile/06873457011410308934noreply@blogger.com